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5월 28일 女人要记住的亦舒75句话(荐)女人要记住的亦舒75句话(荐)1、真正有气质的淑女,从不炫耀她所拥有的一切,她不告诉人她读过什么书,去过什么地方,有多少件衣服,买过什么珠宝,因为她没有自卑感。——《圆舞》 2、如此情深,却难以启齿。原来你若真爱一个人,内心酸涩,反而会说不出话来,甜言蜜语,多数说给不相干的人听。——《她的二三事》 3、能够说出的委屈,便不算委屈;能够抢走的爱人,便不算爱人。——《开到荼蘼》 4、爱得不够,才借口多多。——《紫薇愿》 5、最佳的报复不是仇恨,而是打心底发出的冷淡,干嘛花力气去恨一个不相干的人——《我的前半生》 6、无论多豪华的婚礼都不代表幸福婚姻,两个人终生相处和睦与否和筵开几席、多少首饰全无关联。——《小紫荆》 7、无论做什么,记得为自己而做,那就毫无怨言——《流金岁月》 8、如果爱一个人,千万不要与他同居或是结婚。维持一个辽阔的距离,偶遇,可以爱慕的目光致敬,轻俏温柔,不着边际地问:"好吗?"一年一次已经足够。——《绝对是个梦》 9、结婚与恋爱毫无关系,人们老以为恋爱成熟后便自然而然的结婚,却不知结婚只是一种生活方式,人人可以结婚,简单得很。爱情……完全是另外一回事。——《我的前半生》 10、两个人的适配是一种内心感觉,而不是一种视觉,千万不要因满足视觉而忽视内心感觉。——《花常好月常圆人长久》 11、能够哭就好,哭是开始痊愈的象征。——《绝对是个梦》 12、我的归宿就是健康与才干,一个人终究可以信赖的,不过是他自己,能够为他扬眉吐气的也是他自己,我要什么归宿?我已找回我自己,我就是我的归宿。——《胭脂》 13、要生活得漂亮,需要付出极大忍耐,一不抱怨,二不解释,绝对是个人才。——《变形记》 14、凡事想别人感激,那是必然要失望的。——《故园》 15、我也想清楚了,婚姻根本就是那么一回事,再恋爱得轰动,三五年之后,也就烟消云散,下班后大家扭开电视一齐看长篇连续剧,人生是这样的。——《独身女人》 16、无论怎么样,一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的,越是没有人爱,越要爱自己。——《星之碎片》 17、做一个女人要做得像一副画,不要做一件衣裳,被男人试完了又试,却没人买,试残了旧了,五折抛售还有困难。——《喜宝》 18、若要生活愉快非得把自己先踩成一块地毯不可,否则总有人来替天行道,挫你的锐气,与其待别人动手,不如自己先打嘴巴,总之将本身毁谤得一钱不值,别人的气也就平了,也不妒忌了——《我的前半生》 19、人为感情烦恼永远是不值得原谅的,感情是奢侈品,有些人一辈子也没有恋爱过。恋爱与瓶花一样,不能保持永久生命。——《城市故事》 20、生命像流水,这些不快的事总要过去,如果注定一辈子要这么过,再不开心也没有用。——《女人三十》 21、穷是一种心态,你若一辈子坚持自己是穷人,拥有大量金钱也救不了你。——《邻室的音乐》 22、生命从来不是公平的,得到多少,便要靠那个多少做到最好,努力的生活下去。——《我们不是天使》 23、已去之事不可留,已逝之情不可恋,能留能恋,就没有今天。——《花常好月常圆人长久》 24、“你大概误会大学文凭是世界之匙,开启顺风顺水之门,这并不正确。读书目的是进修学问,拓阔胸襟。人生所有烦恼会不多不少永远追随,只不过学识涵养可以使一个人更加理智冷静地分析处理这些难题而已。” ——《花常好月常圆人长久》 25、幸运者做猪不幸者做人,我是个幸运的不幸者,起码我睡的象猪。——《天若有情》 26、这是一个高度竞争的社会,没有资格走的人最好不要走,否则要回头这个位置已经被人占去,再也没有空隙,闲时闹意气,一点用处也没有。——《曾经深爱过》 27、行乐及时,上天给你什么,就享受什么。千万不要去听难堪的话,一定不去见难看的人。或者是做难做的事情,爱上不应爱的人。——《电光幻影》 28、生活中无论有什么闪失,统统是自己的错,与人无尤,从错处学习改过,精益求精,直至不犯同一错误,从不把过失推诿到他人肩膀上去,免得失去学乖的机会。——《阿修罗》 29、现今还有谁会照顾谁一辈子,那是多沉重的一个包袱。所以非自立不可。——《不易居》 30、真正的才华如火焰般难以收藏,总会燎原。——《曾经深爱过》 31、朋友有什么义务替他保守秘密?他不想人知,就不要说,你不让他说,他才会心痒而死,所以做朋友的借出耳朵已经仁至义尽,其他的,管他呢!——《琴批》 32、人一定要受过伤才会沉默专注,无论是心灵或肉体上的创伤,对成长都有益处。——《花解语》 33、一个成熟的人往往发觉可以责怪的人越来越少,人人都有他的难处。——《我们不是天使》 34、失去的东西,其实从来未曾真正地属于你,也不必惋惜。——《玫瑰的故事》 35、何必向不值得的人证明什么,生活得更好,乃是为你自己。——《忽而今夏》 36、两个人在一起生活,岂是一项艺术,简直是修万里长城,艰苦的工程。——《玫瑰的故事》 37、有能力的人影响别人,没能力的一群受人影响。——《喜宝》 38、麻烦来找你,你才去应付它,如不,任它沉睡——《花解语》 39、我要很多很多的爱。如果没有爱,那么就很多很多的钱,如果两件都没有,有健康也是好的。——《喜宝》 40、聪明人,无谓争意气。——《连环》 41、做人要含蓄点,得过且过,不必斤斤计较,水清无鱼,人清无徒,谁又不跟谁一辈子,一些事放在心中算了。——《蔷薇泡沫》 43、在黑暗里,取出杯子,喝干了酒,千头万绪,恨事那么多,不知道挑哪一宗来咬牙切齿才好,索性全抛在脑后,安静睡觉。——《忽尔今夏》 44、我提着一个袋子,边走边拾。一路上拾起无数我不想要的东西。当我遇到我真正想要的东西之时,袋子已经装满了。——《印度墨》 45、一个人走不开,不过因为他不想走开;一个人失约,乃因他不想赴约,一切借口均属废话,都是用以掩饰不愿牺牲。——《一千零一妙方》 46、人们不解释的主要原因是根本不在乎对方的想法,无关重要的人,对无关重要的事有点儿误会,有什么关系,你信也好,不信也好,都于当事人生活毫无影响,何劳解释。——《阿修罗》 48、爱一个人决不潇洒,为自己留了后步的,也就不是爱——《星之碎片》 49、我喜欢向没有知识但是聪明的人学习,他们那一套不讲理、原始,令人难堪,但往往行得通。受过教育的女人事事讲风度,连唯一的武器都失掉,任由社会宰割。——《玉梨魂》 50、答通常吸引男人的是这种冷漠,但是男人终于娶的是仰慕他的女人,没才干的女人靠嫁人过活,有本事的女人靠自己过活——《城市故事》 51、男人!当你要求一个女人像女人的时候,问问你自己有几成像男人!——《城市故事》
12월 11일 把梦做成惊悚片昨夜的梦中,痛失一人,感觉到情节的突兀与恐怖,在醒来时,还隐隐作痛。
大概的情节是这样的,我是家中次女,上有一兄,一节日两人在家中传下的古宅玩耍。忘了说,古宅很古,很少有孩子敢去。
恰好这一日是大雪,雪覆盖住了楼梯,木质楼梯,黑黢黢的,很阴森。
我和哥哥秉一烛前行,突然身后的哥哥不见踪影,我身后的一级楼梯也不见了,而被雪覆盖的后面若干节楼梯还在那里......
我哭了,不是害怕,是伤心。一滴泪滑下,顺着后面断开的楼梯凝成了一粒冰珠。我发誓要找寻哥哥的踪迹,应该还在这古宅中。
回到父母面前,我没有说出哥哥的下落,只说他外出了。硬撑着,凭一丝勇气和与哥哥的心灵感应,我努力回忆哥哥消失的地点与时间,要凭借一己之力把他挖出来,因为我不相信哥哥死了。
未完,待续。。。
待我的下一集梦境。醒来是后怕的,觉得没有梦中的自己有胆量和决心。
10월 24일 sexy jobs越来越写不出好文章了,文章也如同邮件般越写越短了,不知是好事还是坏事。
日间的邮件每五分钟跳出平均7封,通常机械性的回复,不多加思考。似乎也就混过去了。
到现在还没把国庆期间的呆滞邮件看完,这两天总算带着内疚的心情看看那些心急如焚的老外,好像又有些窃喜。Slow moving mails.
无意间窥见一块有关工作的邮件,摘了下来。希望做梦时自己能有其中的一种:
10 Sexy Jobs
By Candace Corner, CareerBuilder.com writer Money, power, fame and glamour are just some of the elements that take a career choice from tedious to tantalizing, but there's a little more to it than that. In the same way that physical beauty is in the eye of the beholder, the definition of what qualifies as a "sexy" is a matter of what you find most attractive about a job's responsibilities. Firefighters are sexy because their role requires bravery, and doctors have sexy jobs because they have commitment and credentials. Danger and intrigue can also factor in to what we find alluring. If there's one other thing sexy jobs share with the perceptions of physical beauty, it's that society, for the most part, creates a general guideline for what makes a job hot. We find interest in the rich and famous and the jobs that seem to have the best perks. Here are some examples of jobs that sizzle: 1. Showgirl Why it's sexy: Their job involves performing dances in elaborate, revealing costumes onstage. The pros: They're in the spotlight, in peak shape, and always look amazing. The cons: It's harder than it looks, and involves constant exercise and a lot of practicing. Costume headpieces are heavy and people often confuse showgirls with being part of the sex industry. 2. Couture Salesperson
Why it's sexy: The rich and famous often shop high-end. The right store and location means there is a likely chance of working with A-list celebrities and other beautiful people. The pros: It opens up opportunities for meeting the right people to launch a future position in fashion or as a personal assistant. And you can't beat the employee discount. The cons: Retail is still retail, so expect to continue folding sweaters, re-organizing racks and assisting crabby customers. 3. Fashion Journalist
Why it's sexy: These people know the industry inside and out, attend all of the fashion shows and schmooze with designers and other influential people. The pros: Amazing samples and the opportunity to meet some of the biggest names in the business.
The cons: Finding work can be difficult. Writing reviews in this industry means a lot of working hours and dealing with city expenses and difficult people. 4. Runway Model Why it's sexy: They showcase the latest fashion and their job is to be beautiful. The pros: They have a reputation for being hot and they get paid for it.
The cons: Competition is fierce. The model look that's in-demand at the moment may not be what designers are looking for next season. 5. Hotel Concierge Why it's sexy: They're smooth operators and know all the right people and places in the area. The pros: Area businesses are more likely to treat you right, since you recommend new business.
The cons: Long hours and the not-so-glamorous duty of dealing regularly with difficult personalities. 6. Makeup Artist
Why it's sexy: They transform and enhance people's looks to be their best or most interesting. The pros: There is an amazing chance for advancement from counter rep to launching a signature beauty line or garnering celeb clientele once a reputation is established. The cons: A client with a good experience will say a lot, but so will those with bad experiences. Word-of-mouth creates the biggest buzz, so this could work against a makeup artist. 7. Stunt Double
Why it's sexy: Stunt men and women defeat the odds while they leaping off buildings, cruising through fires and conquering car crashes. The thrill and the danger create a high. The pros: They get the reputation of surviving some of the most death-defying acts humanly possible. The cons: Stunts don't always get the recognition they deserve in the public eye. 8. Magazine Photographer Why it's sexy: They are paid to capture images of beautiful and interesting people and locations. The pros: Their creative vision pays off, literally. The cons: Expensive and heavy equipment, finding the right frame and needing to talk your subjects into your ideas. 9. Club Owner Why it's sexy: They are their own bosses and they create the atmosphere where people go to party. The pros: As the owners of the area hotspots, everyone wants to know them. Reputation makes the business.
The cons: Trends come and go, and if club owners can't keep it interesting, patrons will party elsewhere. 10. Professional Investigator
Why it's sexy: Their job is all about uncovering confidential information, whether it's insurance fraud or cheating spouses. The pros: Uncovering infidelities and getting justice for the romantically wronged is their bread and butter.
The cons: Serving subpoenas and other court-related work is the unglamorous side of their business. The work can also be sometimes perceived as seedy by the general public. |
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